Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Fragile | Chapter 16
This is an interview I did with another parent of a medically fragile child. The birth of his son and the medical complications that upended their lives sent Hamilton Cain looking for themes and patterns in his childhood and adulthood from which to find strength and meaning. He asks hard questions, takes on harder daily caregiving routines, but doesn't settle for the easy answers and therefore ends up with the most beautiful ones.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Palm Sunday Preacher - Inspiring the Sermon
Back in NY, Daddy squeezed in a nice visit with MG while she tried nasal cannula again. She did okay but was uncomfortab
Downtown, Mommy bemoaned the fact she's become the "Palm Sunday preacher" -- my 5th time in 6 years at First, Brooklyn. The message hits a little too close to home. When can I clap my hands on Easter and say "We're here! We're here!"
Until then we'll keep marching on... By the way, if you missed it earlier and want to sponsor our team in honor of Margaret Grace in the March for Babies on April 25th go to: www.marchfo
"This Too Shall Pass" --Grief and Gifts
Monday, March 15, 2010 11:50 AM, EDT
Grace has had a good couple days. She is back to baseline after the surgery, requiring 23-25%O2 on CPAP. Calm and getting her beauty sleep before her Mimi's visit tonight.We also share good news that her old friend, Jayden, is trying CPAP today at LIJ. Pray that he passes this trial. We were overjoyed to hear he had reached low vent settings to do this.
Certainly these two have not been spared many trials at a young age. In Lent, we are reminded of the cup that is not taken from us. But we also celebrate all that is possible in God through their miraculous life and fighting spirits.
So
Our Lady of Prague is a famous church/shri
In the card, she writes:
"As we were standing in that church, a group of American teenagers gathered in front of the shrine and began to sing.(they were a high school choir) I do not remember the name of the hymn but it was particularl
The lady who sold me the medallion told me that Our Lady of Prague is a way of saying that God is our mother. And she is on the watch for all of her children, ranging from Baby Grace and James, to Beth and David. The funny thing is that when I bought this, I knew it was not mine to keep forever. It was mine for awhile and I have kept it in a special place in my house since then.
It is yours now, Beth and David. Take it and I pray that it reminds you of the love and presence of God when you need it most. All I ask is that when you are done with it (and only you will know when), you either pass it on to Grace or another person who may need its message. I trust your judgment.”
I wish I had 300 of these to give to all of you who watch and pray, watch and pray, over the new life of our daughter and hopefully new life in all of us. But I feel the story blesses just the same.
Diva Headband
Friday, March 12, 2010 10:11 PM, EST
The day w

I got to hold her today for 2 hours. It took us both some time to adjust to this. She graduated to an open air bed. I also helped the nurse give her a sponge bath for the first time.
The nurse made a silly bow for her CPAP headband because MG is now known around the NICU as a "Diva." She is very particular and hard to settle. She did open her eyes for her diva headshot though, see photos page.
When Hope is a Tube of Lipstick
Wednesday, March 10, 2010 9:27 PM, EST
Because of a miscommunic
Today is "Wellness Day" at Columbia. A woman who lost a child in the NICU organized a bunch of professiona
Before this experience, I would have been skeptical of the effects these self-care measures have when dealing with chronic issues. Yet, I have experienced how looking like you feel better helps a little in feeling better if only because it helps others treat you as more than just a patient. I said before that this kind of experience will make you try anything. Before the last bronchoscop
So I am grateful for the woman who every Wednesday revisits the place where her child lived and died to make sure other parents get a small reprieve from the stress or at least, leave looking like they have. This morning, David and I were just talking about how much more we now appreciate the importance of small gestures in communicati
Melting Flakes of Snow Will Catch You When You Fall
Thursday, March 4, 2010 9:19 PM, EST
Fold yourself againstMe like a paper bird
Tonight we'll fly awhile
Just give me the word
And hold onto me
Like I hold onto you
A steeple holds a bell
The night sky holds the moon
Melting flakes of snow
Will catch you when you fall
Baby that's not all
Then like falling stars
Back down to sleep will go
Into our waiting arms
In orbits round the glow
Cover lets and down
Will catch you when you fall
Baby that's not all (Josh Ritter)
Davi
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We hope we can find enough soothing methods to help her keep her oxygen needs down low enough as she weans off the steriods to convince the doctors to let her continue on CPAP. Today, David and I visited separetely, but we both felt more confident about her and that we can try holding her again soon. There was no concrete evidence for this, just a sense, kind of like the one I felt while she was in the operating room when it was snowing outside.
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Melting flakes of snow
Will catch you when you fall
Baby that's not all